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“Tidal Wave Girls” Introduces Us To The Future of Feminism

Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

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New favorite feminist documentary, anyone? This 3 minute excerpt from the documentary Tidal Wave Girls, that shows young women and men discussing the women who inspire them and the future of feminism, focusing on the new world we’re all creating for ourselves.

One clip has kids (and young teenagers) discuss the women they admire. The excerpt mainly has all the kids discussing their appreciation for their mothers and how their mothers balance work and home life.

Not only that, but the documentary asks a young woman, who looks to be remotely 14 or 15, what she wants to be when she’s older. What does she respond with? Science.

Yes, you read that right. SCIENCE.

Plus, the documentary hits the viewers with interesting statistics, such as women are scoring higher on IQ tests and 39 out of the 50 states, women in their 20′s are earning more than men their age.

How does it feel to be amazing, ladies?

Watch more here: http://jezebel.com/your-evening-inspiration-kids-talk-about-the-women-the-503896578

THE OTHER WOMEN…WILL WE NEED THEM?

Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

THE FOLLOWING IS WRITTEN BY ONE OF MY FAVORITE MENTEES, A SERIOUS CAMPAIGN PRO & VOLUNTEER FROM MY CAMPAIGNS:

By Ellie Cohen, 2013 political journalism George Washington University graduate-to-be,  for TheRun2016.com 

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 A pair of recent public speeches  that tickled the fancy of the media and her admirers only hardened the assumption that Hillary Clinton is running for president.

“It’s such a silly question. Of course Hillary is running,” declared the inimitable New York Times columnist Maureen Dowd on Sunday.

But if — for whatever reason — she takes a pass at history, the decision would blow open a gaping hole in the 2016 Democratic field that would have to be filled.

Unquestionably, there would be a need for another woman.

There are a handful of prominent names that have been floated as women who could pick up the torch, but Democratic strategists surveyed by The RUN believe two stand out head-and-shoulders above the pack: New York Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand and Massachusetts Sen. Elizabeth Warren.

“Gillibrand and Warren would be far more formidable,” said Democratic strategist David Heller, when presented with those names as well as Minnesota Sen. Amy Klobuchar and Homeland Security Secretary Janet Napolitano.

“Elizabeth Warren, in particular, would be extremely formidable because she has, arguably, the best donor list of any sitting office holder right now, other than Joe Biden. In terms of the presidency, only Biden and Hillary Clinton would have a better donor base to begin the race than Elizabeth Warren.”

During the high-profile Massachusetts Senate race last year, Warren compiled an extensive and active donor list and demonstrated her prolific national fundraising abilities. She raised $42 million leading up to November, with more money and individual donors than any other congressional candidate.

Running in the national spotlight also helped boost her name recognition, especially in the neighboring state of New Hampshire, which shares a media market with Boston. Public Policy Polling recently found that if Clinton and Biden are both running, only five percent would vote for Warren.

However, when Clinton is not in the contender pool, the number more than doubles to 11 percent. If Biden is removed from the field of contenders, 18 percent said they would vote for Warren, following unknown and New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo.

READ MORE OF HER ARTICLE HERE.

Hollaback!

Thursday, April 4th, 2013

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Street harassment occurs every day and effects many women in the United States. To curb street harassment, Hollaback! was created. According www.ihollaback.org,” Hollaback! is a movement to end street harassment powered by a network of local activists around the world.” Hollaback! was created  better understand street harassment, to ignite public conversations, and to develop innovative strategies to ensure equal access to public spaces. To learn more about the movement, go their website, www.ihollaback.org and tell others about the impact of Hollaback!

Read more: http://www.ihollaback.org/

Diminshing Rape Culture: The Generation We Need To Be

Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013

Courtesy to Google Images“She is deader than OJ’s wife. She is deader than Caylee Anthony.” These despicable comments made by a teenager later charged with raping an intoxicated sixteen year old girl in Steubenville, Ohio really does show an accurate picture of how my generation views rape and sexual assault. Quite frankly, I’m disgusted, ashamed and embarrassed to say that those young men who raped a sixteen year old girl are a part of my generation. We are a part of the generation that teaches young women to be careful in society, regarding clothing, or to be sexually assaulted or raped as the result. We are a part of a generation that often sympathizes with the rapist, not the victim, as if the victim is making up such “tales” for attention. We are a part of a generation that teaches women “not to be raped” rather than teaching men “not to rape”. We are the generation that jokes about rape and sexual assault, finding the tragic topic amusing. We are the generation that lacks common sense and morals.

Yes means yes. No means no. As children, we are often taught this simple principle early on in our childhood. But, many of us have forgotten this principle, and apparently the residents of Steubenville, Ohio did not do a well enough job of instilling this in their children. As a few young men were caught on video and taking pictures of sexual assaulting, raping and joking about the rape of a sixteen year old girl, there is one thing missing: This young woman had no consent regarding sexual activity. She never told them to “take it slow” and to not jump in to have sex. She never told them to put a condom on. She never told them she didn’t want to engage in a sexual activity. This young woman never had these chances because a few men found it amusing to take advantage of her and her body. It doesn’t matter if she would have enjoyed the sexual activity or if she wouldn’t have enjoyed it if she were sober. What matters is a sixteen year old girl that was unconscious due to intoxication and that to a few young men, her body was not off limits.

As it’s obvious that being intoxicated with alcohol and being passed out is a green light to many to move forward and to rape a young teenage girl, one has to know that this is not the only excuse that people will find for saying that it’s okay to sexually assault or rape someone. A popular excuse in society is calling out women for what they are wearing, whether it’s revealing or not. From short shorts and tank tops, to long sleeves and jeans, women in this country often have to endure cat calls, slut shaming and body shaming. By not taking action and not calling out people who do harass women, this opens doors to telling women that wear what you want, but expect cat calls and expect being called derogatory names. Young women need to grow up in a world knowing they’ll be safe, no matter if they wear tank tops or long sleeves. Everyone needs to be informed that no matter what you’re wearing, women are harassed. You don’t necessarily need to be wearing revealing clothing for this to happen to you. Sadly, almost every American woman will have to endure harassment in their lifetime.

But, just because this is how society works, doesn’t mean we can’t change it. From Slut Walks to tweets to Youtube videos, men and women across the country standing up, calling for action. Even some Americans are coming up with apps for a cellular device, iPod touch, etc. to track down sexual harassment and rape and to report it. Many adults want young women, like myself, to grow up in an accepting world. They want a world where women don’t have to be scared of walking down the street, fearing they’ll be called a slut, but rather treated normally, as they should be. So that young women don’t have to be cat called when they walk into their local grocery store, but rather greeted with a smile. So that young women that are intoxicated with alcohol don’t have to be afraid of being sexually assaulted and raped when passed out, but rather get the help that they need and to get home safely.

Let’s become that generation.

When In Doubt, Let’s Move Forward

Friday, March 22nd, 2013

 

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Thousands of women in flowery tank tops and sun glasses too large for their face surrounded and marched on the narrow streets in big cities. Black women and white women alike linked arms to show that the diverse group stood together as one. Men even joined in, all chanting for equality. Street by street was filled, homemade posters demanding abortion rights and birth control waved in the wind and the sound of change was in the air. The 1970’s was an impacting era for women’s rights to be promoted and implemented across the United States. From Gloria Steinem, to Audre Lorde, to Betty Friedan, women lead effective demonstrations throughout the country to show their opposition to patriarchy and their support for women making their own choices about marriage, their body, to have a job, etc. Today’s feminists have a different look, though. Feminists take to social media sites, such as Twitter and Facebook, to take a stand on issues, such as slut shaming, equality in the workforce, sexual violence and promoting inspiring models for young women. One can look at a feminist leader, like Gloria Steinem and see how much she impacted the feminist movement. She lead large rallies, contributed to a magazine and wrote her own books. Women in the 1960’s, 1970’s, before and beyond that era, showed young women that society didn’t have to hold them back from all of the opportunities in life.  In today’s society, there is no clear leader for the feminist movement. Feminists are scattered online, on the streets protesting and in the workforce, and all share different ideas on what feminism really is. As there are many inspiring role models for young women, they aren’t embraced as women who maybe aren’t as inspiring are. There no need to worry about the movement dying down, because history goes to show that the movement dying down has happened in previous years. In the late 1800’s, women fought for the right to vote for nearly 40 years. After women got the right to vote, feminists weren’t heard from for another 40 years, up until the 1960’s. Many movements occurred in the 1960’s, including anti-war protests, demonstrations for women’s rights and rallies for racial equality. History tends to repeat itself, so if the feminist movement died down in the late 1980’s and early 1990’s, to follow previous historical patterns, then the feminist movement wouldn’t start up again until the mid-2030’s. As one knows the 2030’s are far away, we have to recognize the flaws in today’s society and how they need to be changed. TODAY is the perfect time to start re-evaluating and re-assessing the feminist movement and where we’re going with our causes. Let’s start considering the options.

 Leadership within the Movement

To start with, we have to start looking at leaders for the movement. The movement has so many issues to be focusing on. The original 1960’s and 1970’s leaders have either passed away or are aging and as we appreciate older feminist leaders and what they did for us, they have lead the movement and the issues were different back then from today’s issues. We have to shift our focus as a movement with a brand new voice. As there are women like Sheryl Sandberg and Kirsten Gillibrand willing to lead us, there is one problem: Not all feminists may be wanting to rally around one leader, which can, and has before in the past, cause split ups in the movement. But, if women like Sandberg and Gillibrand aren’t up to fulfilling the arduous task, who will lead us? Will it be someone from possibly Sandberg or Gillibrand’s generation or someone from another generation, such as my own? Do we want a young person leading the movement? At a young age, seeing the flaws in society is important, but can a young person lead such a diverse and large movement? A recent article written by Sally Quinn on the Washington Post’s website proposed the idea of just “moving on with our lives” and not having a movement or a leader. Is the movement ready for a different path, like the one Sally Quinn proposed? Will history later on determine who the leader was or do we continue on and look for leaders, but need multiple to lead on different causes? All of these points should be taken into consideration while revamping a movement just like the feminist movement.

 Issues to Focus On

From voting rights, to the right to an abortion and birth control methods, the feminist movement has dealt with many issues over the years. As a young woman, I see all the issues that society currently deals with, including education, fair pay, violence against women, sexual violence, rape culture, electing more women to office, slut shaming, body shaming, accepting the LGBTQUIA community in the movement, sexual education, promoting inspiring role models for young women, assisting women internationally, etc. Even abortion and birth control are on the forefront, because many politicians in various states feel the need to bring us all back to the olden days. But, I only mentioned a few issues being discussed in today’s world. There’s a variety of issues that feminists believe in and take a stand on. For example, some feminists believe prostitution and revealing one’s body should be accepted and should be legal, as it is a part of a “sexual revolution”. Others find it demeaning, unsafe and is a part of sexualizing women. Just by this example alone, one can realize that the movement can be torn on a few issues and can separate us all on what really matters: equality.

How We Conduct Demonstrations

Demonstrations have been popular for taking a stand for many movements. From racial acceptance, to LGBTQUIA issues, to economic equality, to feminism, protests are effective if used correctly. For decades, feminists have used their freedom of speech by protesting serious flaws in society. Homemade signs are made, loud voices are prepared and appropriate walking shoes are in handy for those who have protested for years within the feminist movement. From what history has to show, the majority of the feminist demonstrations have been successful and effective. But, are protests still needed in today’s society and can they be considered effective? In a recent online article written by Judy Rebick on Rabble, she mentions when she partook in demonstrations, that she “took on qualities of patriarchy” and “learned to be assertive, sure of herself, never doubting”. Judy also mentioned how she also participated in a round dance and felt that round dancing was more inclusive and it was less confrontational. Do feminists need to show their opposition to society’s flaws indifferent ways, such as round dancing? Or do we keep participating in the traditional way of protesting and demonstrating? Do we need demonstrations and are they still necessary in today’s society when we have online social media, such as Twitter and Facebook? Protesting is an important part of taking a stand, but how feminists demonstrate is a factor to put into consideration for the future.

Getting the Youth Involved

Being a young teenager myself, I know for a fact that the majority of teenagers in this country don’t know what a feminist is and don’t identify as one. Not only do many teenagers in this country not care about feminism, but my generation is more in tune to their favorite television show rather than what is happening in the world. For years, I’ve noticed the lack of youth involved in politics, so I decided to take to Facebook, as I often do, for opinions of others that I value. I asked my fellow peers to “like” my status if they ever heard of the people or terms I mentioned in one of my statuses. The status included some names of well-known feminists, such as Gloria Steinem and Betty Friedan, and terms like, rape culture, victim blaming and patriarchy. Of the current 58 “likes”, 51 of them are teenagers. While the status wasn’t the most accurate “poll”, one can see how many teenagers know who these women are and what these terms mean, as the majority of my Facebook friends are teenagers. I wasn’t expecting a huge number of people to “like” my status, only because politics, policy and the news are deemed “boring” among my peers. Although one can’t simple make politics “fun” or even entertaining, what the world’s youth really needs are voices within the movement. To make more diverse groups, especially the youth, involved in the movement is for adults value our opinion and ideas. After all, we are the future, and possibly even current, leaders of this country.

 As one can see, the feminist movement needs a shake-up. We need to re-evaluate and re-assess what we stand for, how we will take a stand, how to include the youth, and most importantly, who is going to take the next step up and lead us, if someone will at all. Nobody said changing the world was easy or fun, but it certainly HAS to be done. Today’s society has a lot of room to improve and many people need to get their hands dirty and get the job done.

Off the Sidelines — Online Book Club

Thursday, March 21st, 2013

In 2011, U.S. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY) launched a program called Off the Sidelines, which was aimed at getting more women “off the sidelines” and more involved in politics and their communities. In the feminist and progressive world, Off the Sidelines has been a big hit, especially among the youth. Not only does the program encourage women to get out in the world and make a difference, but it also hosts a book club. Recently, the Senator has sent out tweets, Facebook statuses and emails about signing up for the book that everyone will have the chance to read. The book is a one-woman play now on Broadway starring Holland Taylor as the former Governor of Texas, Ann Richards. Gillibrand felt that this play portrays Ann Richards accurately and wanted to share Ann’s story with other women. To sign up for the meeting, RSVP here and Off the Sidelines will email you later about the details of what the meeting is. Remember ladies: get involved!

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